I had a problem. A small problem, but an annoying problem. It’s been something that’s bothered me for months. Actually, now that I think more about it, it’s bothered me for years.
When people give me a business card, I like to jot a note or two on the back. The note might be the date or event where I met them, an additional phone number, or a something we talked about. From time to time I run into trouble, since the backs of some cards are a dark color, rendering my blue or black ink pen useless.
Additionally, there are times when I give out one of my business cards along with a colleague’s email address, a book recommendation or some other note. I would like to jot these on the back of my business card, but alas, the back is dark too.
I have mostly kept this problem to myself, sharing without intention with a couple of other people. When shared, I received sympathy but little else, which meets my expectations. I figure the situation is just one of those “it is what it is” kind of things. Or so I thought!
One recent afternoon I shared this conundrum with my husband. This afternoon, mind you, was years after I first recognized I was bothered with the situation. He sensed I was frustrated, so he calmly listened to me grumble. When I was done, he politely (yes, politely!) suggested I just get myself a pen with white or silver ink. I literally smacked my forehead. How simple! How effective! How perfect! I could not believe that I had allowed something with such a trouble-free solution frustrate me for so long!
What did this help me do? Besides now being able to write on the backs of dark business cards? It helped me realize the value in sharing and discussing problems, no matter how small. The sooner I talk about them with others, the sooner I can smack myself in the forehead for not thinking of the solution on my own….and even better, the sooner the problem will be resolved!